📒7-13不平等轭婚姻里的人Unequally Yoked Marriages

 给那些被呼召来作亚呼赎阿新娘，却还在不平等轭婚姻里的人

For those called to be the Bride of YAHUSHUA, that are in Unequally Yoked Marriages

2008年8月12日August 12, 2008

从录音里抄录下来：Transcribed from audio tape:

这个梦是在（2008年）8月12日做的，是在读了写在（亚呼赎阿的践踏恶魔勇士论坛）里面的信息之后，我知道斯蒂芬并没有听从亚哈威，他开始是在做关于亚所认为的不平等轭婚姻的预言收集工作。This dream was on August 12 and it was after reading what ... had written (on the YDS forum) I knew Stephen did not hear from YAHUVEH, so started working on gathering Prophecies together about what YAH thinks of unequally yoked marriages. 像往常一样，我们只是等待一篇话语前来。我们已经得到了从亚哈威而来的预言性话语，所以我并不是真的很期待这个梦。当我做了这个异梦时，我刚开始认为这是一个最“愚蠢” 的梦，但有时候这些却是有最深刻含义的梦。And as usual we just wait for a Word to come forth. We already had the Prophetic Words from YAHUVEH so I wasn’t really expecting this dream. When I had this dream I thought it was stupid (laughs) and sometimes our most “stupidest” dreams are the deepest dreams.

这次亚呼赎阿赐给我的是一个比喻的梦，是我第一次做比喻的梦。（哈哈）“比喻很可怕” ，如果你没有得到分辨的话（哈哈）。This time YAHUSHUA gave me a dream that was a parable, my very first parable. (Laughs) “Parables are terrible” if you don’t have (laughs) discernment.

……我只是想再补充一件事：我因为头剧痛而醒来，疼痛的部位就在我前额的中间，我知道那是封印记的地方，是给新娘的印记。I just want to add one more thing, I woke up with the worst head pain right in the center of my forehead, where I know that the seal is, the seal for the Bride.  我儿子以前看到过，在我第一次被按立为使徒的时候。那时候我并不知道那是什么。现在我知道了。那是很可怕，很可怕的压痛感。My son saw it before, when I was first ordained as an Apostle. I didn’t know what it was then. Now I do. And it was that horrible, horrible pressure pain. 但是神奇的是，当我开始告诉别人那个梦时，我感觉是被带领着，而且我一直听到说：“你要把那个梦告诉其他人。” 我心里想：“不，这是一个很愚蠢的梦，我不认为要告诉别人。” But the miracle part was when I started telling others about the dream, when I felt led, and I kept hearing, “You’ve got to tell someone about the dream.” And I thought, “No, he’s not in a good mood. I don’t think so.” （笑着说）但是当我听从，我把整个梦告诉了别人时，我头上的压迫感就消失了，不仅如此，我还得到了分辨。But (chuckles) as I obeyed and I did tell him by the time I spoke the whole dream, the pressure in my head was gone and not only that, I had discernment. 这是给所有那些处于危险的不平等轭婚姻中的人，我们现在有五个男人，就像那“五个聪明的童女（处女）” ，当然还有K，！This is for all those in dangerous unequally yoked marriages, we have 5 men right now, like the “5 Wise Virgins”, plus we’ve got K of course 但我们现在谈论的是男人，他们在属灵上全都是处于不平等轭的关系中，他们所有人都不应该处于这些不平等轭的婚姻中，像亚哈威所命定的那样。but we’re talking about the men right now and all of them are spiritually unequally yoked and all of them are not to be in these unequally yoked marriages as YAHUVEH has decreed.这些男人要证明他们最爱谁：是他们悖逆的异教徒妻子，那些想行在悖逆中的人，还是他们挚爱的亚呼赎阿，我们的玛西阿克。 These men are going to prove who they love the most, whether it be their rebellious heathen wives, those that want to walk in rebellion, or whether it be their Beloved YAHUSHUA our MASHIACH. 这些男人中，有些人已经为亚呼赎阿做出了他们的决定，赞美亚呼赎阿！Some of these men have already made their decision for YAHUSHUA, PRAISE YAHUSHUA!

以下是那个梦。呃，我希望我能做到。我需要帮助回忆起这个梦境，因为那么多的事情朝我们袭来，就像是一场猛攻，又像是雪崩，呃……好吧。Here’s the dream. Boy I hope I can do this. I need help in remembering because so many things have been coming at us, like an onslaught, like an avalance. Ugh….OK.

异梦Dream

我订了婚，要和一个男人结婚，但那个男人对我不太好。已经定好了结婚的日期，我本要出去买我的东西，是准新娘要买的东西，那将会是一场美丽豪华盛大的婚礼，I was engaged to be married to a man and the man wasn’t very nice to me. There was a set date for the marriage and I was supposed to be out buying my things that a “Bride-to-be” buys and it was going to be a big, beautiful, fancy wedding 但那个我认为是亚哈威想我嫁给他的男人，我要跟这个男人结婚的唯一理由是我以为亚哈威想我嫁给他。but the man who I thought YAHUVEH wanted me to marry, that was the only reason I was going to marry this man was because I thought YAHUVEH wanted me to marry him. 他也知道我以为是亚哈威想我嫁给他。所以他和我为此大吵了一架，故意拖延婚礼，所以我既不能准备婚礼，也不能买婚纱。And he knew I thought YAHUVEH wanted me to marry him. So he got in this great big huge fight with me on purpose to delay the wedding, so I could not prepare for the wedding or buy my wedding garment. 他知道任何时候，只要他想，他都可以操纵我说：“婚礼又开始了。” And he knew that any time he wanted to he could manipulate me and say, “The wedding is back on.” 但他想让我确信我得不到所有的祝福，就是新娘计划她盛大婚礼所需要准备和提前买的东西。我非常，非常沮丧，很不开心，But he wanted me to make sure that I do not get all the blessings that a bride would prepare and buy before hand when she plans her big wedding. I was very, very depressed and very unhappy 因为我不想跟这个人结婚，但我想我是被迫结婚的，因为那是亚哈威所希望的。because I didn’t want to marry this man but I thought I was being forced to because of what YAHUVEH wanted.

在此期间，我在梦里看见凯瑟琳亚。凯瑟琳亚也订婚了，她和她的新郎在一起。In between this, I saw Kathrynyah, in my dream. Kathrynyah also was engaged to be married and she was with her Bridegroom. 我只知道她不停地进出我住的房间，而且她只说一件事，就是：“哎呀，要去买东西了！” ，I just knew that she kept popping in and out of the room that I was in and she would say just one thing, “Oops! Gotta’ go shopping!” 她开心的笑着，因为她有一位深情大方的新郎。每当她这么说的时候，我都很悲伤地看着她，心里想：“应该是我呀！我应当可以去买我婚礼物品！但我却跟这个邪恶的男人订婚了。And she was laughing, happy and rejoicing that she has a loving generous bridegroom. I looked at her sadly each time she did this and I’m thinking, “That should be me! I should be able to go shopping for my wedding!” But instead I was engaged to this evil man. 我现在称他是邪恶的，因为我根本不喜欢他。他控制欲和操纵欲很强，我的家人都替我感到难过，他们一直在说：“不要担心，他会说婚礼又要开始了。这只是他的时间问题。” I’m going to call him evil now because I didn’t like him at all. He was controlling and very manipulative and my family felt sorry for me and they kept saying, “Don’t worry. He’ll say the marriage is back on again. It’s just his timing.”

同时还有另外一个男人，他想成为我的新郎。他非常爱我。他说：“没有什么我不会给妳的，我不想你不开心。我不希望妳不幸地结婚。In the meantime there’s another man. He wanted to be my Bridegroom. He loved me so much. He said, “There’s not anything I won’t give you. I don’t want you to be unhappy. I don’t want you to be miserably married. 嫁给我吧！我不会羞辱妳，我不会虐待妳。我不会对妳很吝啬，我不会操纵妳。”  而我也的确爱这个男人，但是因为我认为我已经对亚哈威起誓了，祂想我嫁给这个坏人，我很困惑，我很犹豫，不知道该怎么办。Come marry me instead. I won’t insult you. I won’t abuse you. I won’t be cheap with you. I won’t manipulate you.”And I did, I loved this other man, but because I thought I had made a vow to YAHUVEH, and HE wanted me to marry the mean guy, I was confused and I was torn and I didn’t know what to do.

梦的结尾是，那个卑鄙的新郎嘲笑我，他说：“是的，妳可以跟妳认识的那个人在一起” 。So the ending of the dream is…the mean bridegroom was laughing at me and he was saying, “Yeah, well, you could be with the other guy you know.” 我看着他说：“你知道我真的相信是亚哈威告诉我要嫁给你的” 他只是嘲笑我，因为他知道他控制着局面。I looked at him and I said, “You know that I really believe that YAHUVEH had told me to marry you.” He just laughed at me because he knew he was in control of the situation. 一切都会按他的方式进行。基本上，如果我嫁给他，我就注定要过着不幸地婚姻。然后电话铃向了，我醒来的时候头剧痛，直到我把这个梦说出来。Everything was going to be his way. And basically it would be if I would marry him I was doomed to be miserably married. Then the telephone rang and I woke up with a horrible pain in my head until I spoke this dream.

梦结束End of Dream

突然，亚呼赎阿说：我在梦里给了妳一个比喻。那是五个聪明童女（处女）的比喻。它适用于新娘。我就想，是的！哇！我现在知道是什么意思了。就是这样的，你们当中有些人可能会明白更多的含义。All of a sudden YAHUSHUA said, “I have given you a parable in the dream. It’s the ‘5 Wise Virgins’, and it pertains to the Bride”. And I’m like, “Yeah! Whoa! I now got the meaning”, so here goes. And some of you will even get more of a meaning.

梦的解释：Dream Interpretation:

有一部分新娘，男人和女人都有，其中有些人是在不幸的婚姻中。There are part of the Bride, both male and female, some who are miserably married. 他们不幸地结婚了，他们忍受了侮辱，忍受了操纵，忍受了控制，因为他们很久以前就起誓了，他们认为是亚哈威告诉他们这么做，但亚哈威并没有让他们这么做。They are miserably married and they have put up with the insults, put up with the manipulation, they have put up with the control because they made a vow a long time ago and they think YAHUVEH told them to do it. But YAHUVEH didn’t. 

还有一些人并不是在不幸的婚姻中，但他们却处在属灵上负不平等轭的婚姻里，这就是所有这些问题的关键。亚哈威并没有把他们放在这段婚姻里，是他们自己的肉体。亚哈威想要你们获得自由。And then there are those who are not miserably married yet they are in a spiritually unequally yoked marriages. That is the whole key to all of this. YAHUVEH did not put them in this marriage it was their own flesh. YAHUVEH wants you to be free. 

凯瑟琳亚在那个梦境里。她已经知道她可以去购物了。她有权利得到天国的一切，她的新郎也对她毫无保留。Kathrynyah is in the dream. She already knows she can go shopping. She has access to everything in Heaven and nothing is her Bridegroom withholding from her. 凯瑟琳亚是在这样的处境里，她在今年3月就已经跟她在属灵上不平等轭的丈夫离婚了。这就是为什么她在准备嫁给亚呼赎阿，我们的玛西阿克。Kathrynyah is in this position because she has divorced her spiritually unequally yoked husband in March of this year. This is why she is getting ready for her marriage to YAHUSHUA, our MASHIACH.

在那个梦里，我有一个非常，非常爱我的人。作为鸣警使女/指环使女，我猜我必须在派对上扮演两个角色：那些不幸地结婚了的人和那些新郎。我有一个非常，非常爱我的人，祂想给我一切；In the dream I have somebody who loves me very, very much. As the Ringmaiden I have to play both sides of the party I guess, those of the miserably married ones and those of the Bridegroom. And I have someone who loves me very, very much and HE wants to give me everything. 祂想赐给我去天国的所有权限。祂想称我为祂的新娘。但在那个梦里，我很犹豫。在现实生活中，我不犹豫。我只是想把那个梦境记录下来。在那个梦里，我不得不显明那些处于不平等轭婚姻里的人犹豫的立场。HE wants to give me all access to Heaven. HE wants to call me HIS Bride. But in the dream I’m torn. In reality I’m not torn. I just want to put that on record. In the dream I have to show the other side of those who are torn in these unequally yoked marriages.

这个异梦的主要讯息是：你已得到了一个选择，你可以待在你不幸的婚姻里，以为你是在取悦亚哈威，因为你很久以前起了誓，事实上却并没有在取悦亚哈威。The main message of the dream is you’ve got a choice, you can stay in your miserable marriages, thinking you’re pleasing YAHUVEH when you’re not, for a vow you made a long time ago. 或者你能够成为亚呼赎阿我们玛西阿克的新娘，祂想给你幸福的生活和去天国的所有权利，其中一个祝福是：如果你是启示录14章里的新娘，你就不必经历大灾难。Or you can be the Bride of YAHUSHUA, our MASHIACH, who wants to give you a life of happiness and all access to Heaven. One of the blessings is you won’t have to go through the Great Tribulation if your Rev. 14 Bride. 祂非常，非常，非常爱你，就像祂在梦中爱我那样。我已经做出了我的选择。我放弃了我许多年的不幸婚姻，我那时候根本不知道，以为我必须信守对神的誓言。HE loves you so very, very, very much, just as HE loves me in the dream. I’ve made my choice. I gave up my miserable marriage of many, many years, thinking I had to keep a vow to a GOD I didn’t even know back then. 

我们现在有五位男士正在这里做出这个决定并非巧合，有些人已经选择了亚呼赎阿，甚过他们的异教徒妻子，他们都曾许下过属世的誓言。所以这就是这个异梦的含义。那是比喻的异梦。“It’s no coincidence we have five men right now who are making this decision and some have chosen YAHUSHUA over their heathen wives,” and all of them made earthly vows. So that is the meaning. That is the parable of the dream. 

如果其他人能从这个异梦中得到更多分辨，请告诉我，但这不是一个愚蠢的梦。这个梦不仅仅只是给新娘的，也是给所有爱亚呼赎阿之人的。祂不想要属于祂的人不幸地结婚。婚姻并不是这样的。If others get more out of it let me know but it wasn’t a foolish dream. It was a dream to set people free. And it’s not even just for the Bride, it’s for all those who love YAHUSHUA. HE does not want people who belong to HIM to be miserably married. That is not what marriage is about.

我记得很久以前祂告诉过我，祂说：“以莉莎法，如果妳以为因为妳待在一个不幸的婚姻里，在天国会有赏赐等着妳，那妳就错了。” I remember a long time ago HE told me, HE said, “Elisabeth, if you think there’s a reward waiting for you in Heaven because you stayed miserably married, you’re wrong.” 

这就是祂告诉我的话。我的确是想过我待在不幸的婚姻里是会有赏赐的，但当祂告诉你要离开的时候，你就要离开，因为假如你不离开，那么你就已选择了那个不幸的婚姻。（请阅读以莉莎法的见证）That’s what HE told me. I guess I did think I was going to get a reward for staying miserably married but when HE tells you to leave, you leave, because if you don’t, then you’ve chosen that miserable marriage. (Read Elisabeth's Testimony)

 

如果你被呼召要成为亚呼赎阿的新娘，而你却选择待在不幸的不平等轭婚姻里，那么你就不能嫁给亚呼赎阿，这是底线。You won’t be married to YAHUSHUA if you are called to be HIS Bride and you choose to stay in an unequally yoked marriage, this is the bottom line.

这就是严酷的现实。亚呼赎阿的新娘，当他们被告知要分开时，他们就必须分开。那是那个异教徒丈夫或妻子的选择，因为现在处于一个不平等轭的家庭里是很危险的。他们将会是那些把你交出去的人。That’s just the harsh reality. The Bride of YAHUSHUA, when they’re told to split, they have to split. And that’s that heathen husband or wife’s choice because the time is now dangerous to be in an unequally yoked household. They’ll be the ones that turn you in 我也得到了这个启示，我们总是以为危险应该是在大灾难期间。我们不再相信那个想法了。我们正在看到亚呼赎阿许多次使用了分离的剑。I also got this revelation, we always thought that the danger would be during the Great Tribulation. We no longer believe that. We’re seeing YAHUSHUA use the dividing sword so many times. 看到你哭泣、痛苦、被侮辱、被操纵、被控制、不得不一直做出选择、被迫妥协，或者你不能跟那个配偶生活在一起，对亚呼赎阿而言，你都不是在帮祂。You’re not doing HIM any favor by seeing you cry and be miserable and insulted and manipulated and controlled, constantly having to choose, being forced to compromise or you can’t live with that spouse. 所以这就是那个异梦的含义。我期待看到其他人是怎么说的。这是五个聪明童女（处女）的新比喻，趁你们还来得及的时候，要摆脱这些婚姻，否则你会失去生命。So this is the meaning of the dream and I look forward to seeing what others say. The new parable of the Five Wise Virgins, get out of these miserable marriages while you can before it’s too late and will cost you your life.

你会失去做新娘的资格。It’ll cost you being the Bride of YAHUSHUA.

这就是那异梦的确切含义。这就意味着你爱那个异教徒女人或男人，胜过爱亚呼赎阿。我知道我所做的选择，我也祈求所有听到这讯息的人，你们也会作出正确的选择，因为我们的亚呼赎阿，我们亲爱的玛西阿克，只想把最好的给你，而不是最坏的。That’s exactly what it means. It means you love that heathen woman or man more than you do YAHUSHUA. I know what I chose and I pray that whoever listens to this you’ll make the right choice too because our YAHUSHUA, our Beloved MASHIACH, only wants the best for you and not the worst. 

到此结束！Over and out!

使徒/先知以莉莎法.以利亚呼Apostle Elisabeth (Elisheva) Elijah

马太福音10:32-42

32 亚呼赎阿说：凡在人面前认我的，我在我天上的父亚哈威面前也必认他；33 凡在人面前不认我的，我在我天上的父亚哈威面前也必不认他。Mat 10:32 Then everyone who shall confess Me before men, I will confess him before My Father who is in Heaven. 33 But whoever shall deny Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father in Heaven.

34 你们不要想我来是叫地上太平，我来并不是叫地上太平，乃是叫地上动刀兵。35 因为我来是叫‘人与父亲生疏，女儿与母亲生疏，媳妇与婆婆生疏；Mat 10:34 Do not think that I have come to bring peace on earth. I did not come to send peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to set a man against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.

36 人的仇敌就是自己家里的人’。37 爱父母过于爱我的，不配做我的门徒；爱儿女过于爱我的，不配做我的门徒；Mat 10:36

And a man's enemies shall be those of his own household.

37 He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.

38 不背着他的十字架跟从我的，也不配做我的门徒。39 得着生命的，将要失丧生命；为我失丧生命的，将要得着生命。Mat 10:38

And he who does not take up his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me. 39 He who finds his life shall lose it. And he who loses his life for My sake shall find it.

40 “人接待你们，就是接待我；接待我，就是接待那差我来的。 41 人因为先知的名接待先知，必得先知所得的赏赐；人因为义人的名接待义人，必得义人所得的赏赐。Mat 10:40 He who receives you receives Me, and he who receives Me receives Him who sent Me.

41 He who receives a prophet in the name of a prophet shall receive a prophet's reward. And he who receives a just one in the name of a just one will receive a just one's reward.

42 无论何人，因为门徒的名，只把一杯凉水给这小子里的一个喝，我实在告诉你们：这人不能不得赏赐。” Mat 10:42 And whoever shall give to one of these little ones a cup of cold water to drink, only in the name of a disciple, truly I say to you, He shall in no way lose his reward.

尼希米记13:23-31

23 那些日子，我也见犹大人娶了亚实突、亚扪、摩押的女子为妻。24 他们的儿女说话，一半是亚实突的话，不会说犹大的话，所说的是照着各族的方言。Neh 13:23 At that time I also discovered that many of the Jewish men had married women from Ashdod, Ammon, and Moab. 24 Half of their children spoke the language of Ashdod or some other language and didn't know how to speak our language.

25 我就斥责他们，咒诅他们，打了他们几个人，拔下他们的头发，叫他们指着神起誓，必不将自己的女儿嫁给外邦人的儿子，也不为自己和儿子娶他们的女儿。Neh 13:25 I reprimanded the men, called down curses on them, beat them, and pulled out their hair. Then I made them take an oath in God's name that never again would they or their children intermarry with foreigners.

26 我又说：“以色列王所罗门不是在这样的事上犯罪吗？在多国中并没有一王像他，且蒙他神所爱，神立他做以色列全国的王，然而连他也被外邦女子引诱犯罪。Neh 13:26 I told them, "It was foreign women that made King Solomon sin. Here was a man who was greater than any of the kings of other nations. God loved him and made him king over all of Israel, and yet he fell into this sin.

27 如此，我岂听你们行这大恶，娶外邦女子干犯我们的神呢？” 28 大祭司以利亚实的孙子、耶何耶大的一个儿子是和伦人参巴拉的女婿，我就从我这里把他赶出去。Neh 13:27 Are we then to follow your example and disobey our God by marrying foreign women?"

28 Joiada was the son of Eliashib the High Priest, but one of Joiada's sons married the daughter of Sanballat, from the town of Beth Horon, so I made Joiada leave Jerusalem.

29 我的神啊，求你记念他们的罪，因为他们玷污了祭司的职任，违背你与祭司、利未人所立的约。30 这样，我洁净他们，使他们离绝一切外邦人，派定祭司和利未人的班次，使他们各尽其职。Neh 13:29 Remember, God, how those people defiled both the office of priest and the covenant you made with the priests and the Levites.

30 I purified the people from everything foreign; I prepared regulations for the priests and the Levites so that all of them would know their duties;

31 我又派百姓按定期献柴和初熟的土产。我的神啊，求你记念我，施恩于我。Neh 13:31 I arranged for the wood used for burning the offerings to be brought at the proper times, and for the people to bring their offerings of the first grain and the first fruits that ripened. Remember all this, O God, and give me credit for it.

使徒以莉莎法.以利亚呼